Plan with focus and enthusiasm this week even if the goal dates are weeks or even months away. The long term results will be amazing. Financial concerns should be at the top of your list. Take all things into consideration before angrily speaking your mind. Your friends have someone in mind to introduce you to, so be open.
Learning more patience is your lesson for the week. Things happen when they are suppose and not when you say, remember the world does not revolve around you. Don’t be so intimidated when things appear to be out of your comfort zone, you can adapt easily and fit in just right. A Libra can be a useful connection to a career opportunity.
A good week to take more control at work. Your hidden or unseen abilities are out and about and ready to be displayed for more financial gain and achievement. An intimate encounter has potential to be permanent. Be more compassionate to those who aren’t as worldly as you, please.
Pay closer attention to what people are saying. You too often jump to conclusions that aren’t accurate because you don’t listen completely. Do not let people who are not worthy monopolize your time. Real feelings of love and romance start do not be so shocked that somebody of the quality you wish is interested, you are ready and deserving.
Be more cognizant of how you can “overtake” conversations, everybody else wants to be heard too. When it comes to work allow others to do their part and not take on the entire project on your shoulders that causes you stress. Accept that some things are just not in your control and control the things you can.
Make an honest effort to make necessary changes in your life this week. Once you get the changes going a new you and attitude will appear. There are some opportunities that you have been afraid to seek, don’t be, and knock loud and long. Love is a bit foggy this week. That’s ok because career, finances and long term goals are the priority right now.
Don’t be so stiff this week. Loosen up and be more playful and fun. Return all forms of communication promptly, an unexpected opportunity is waiting. Finances are good this week, put some away because there are more costly days in the next few weeks.
Try to have an approach and perspective toward your life. You often don’t acknowledge your own accomplishments for paying more attention to your failures. You should have really clear expectations of all efforts you put forth; it will make all the difference. Your ability to handle difficult people brings out the very best in your communication skills. Put forth extra effort to that special someone, you have not been as attentive lately.
This week brings lots of thoughts about living somewhere else. Not a bad idea. Go head strong to confront your fears and insecurities; they won’t leave on their own so conquer them. Be more willing to take a chance on love. You have a bigger impact on your friend’s life than you realize even if it’s not spoken.
Pay attention this week to how you market yourself personally or professionally. Any small adjustments could make a huge impact. Your negotiation skills are at a height this week, so take full advantage of this in business and work. Keep those you consider close fully informed of your busy schedule this week so that they don’t feel ignored. Listen to that voice before making a decision you feel might be ‘unwise.’
Align yourself more with people that think more ‘outside’ the box this week. You are way too self conscious and need to be freer. This association will unlock major ideas and thoughts that could make 2011 a breakthrough year for you financially and in the house of love. Control your urges to overindulge; you know how you hang on to things that you regret.
Careful this week about that feeling of being powerless. You are still very much in control, so keep that in mind. You will be captivated by someone you really feel connected to this week. Put some more spring and pep in your step. This attitude helps to bring stellar results in a lack luster love life and in your social life with new and old friends.
JUST ASK WAYNE
I am in love with my husband but VERY skeptical about our marriage. I sacrificed and compromised a lot for this marriage. I gave up on affection and being romanticized. But he’s never been that way to me in the past so I knew what I was getting into. I caught him cheating in the past and have been told he still is but I have no proof and he tries to make me believe I am crazy for believing things like that because he is not anymore. I am so “paranoid” about this that I am hell bent on proving his infidelity. Whenever my “sixth sense” tell me to, I go through everything he has in our house. But I feel like I’m missing something that could be right under my nose. Sometimes when I think he is out there doing “stuff”, I find him at home sleeping, watching TV or on the computer and then I feel so stupid. Sometimes, he’ll call me just to make sure I’ll be home soon and he is already there waiting for me. God forbid if he is home and I am not. Even if we are not in the same room, the fact that I’m there brings him comfort. But, I just can’t bring myself to trust him and I’m starting to believe that maybe I’m the one with the problem– maybe I just don’t trust myself anymore since I’ve become so paranoid. This feeling of paranoia has turned my personal and work life upside down. I don’t think it’s serious enough for counseling but I just feel like something is just not right. My birthday is 07/31/1972 and his is 02/26/1976. Please give me some insight.
Interesting answers the cards gave me, I did a five card spread with the first 2 being the past, the 3rd the present and the last 2 the future:
Card 1 – The Nine of Wands- you actually went into this marriage not trusting him and there were signs that you ignored and tried to sweep them under the carpet in your mind.
Card 2 – The Eight of Swords – when you finally caught him cheating your worst fears were realized and this took a big beating on your emotional health in this marriage.
Card 3 – The Four of Wands – this man isn’t cheating on you now and is putting forth effort to make things at home happy secure and pleasant for the both of you.
Card 4 – The Hermit – you are going to need without any question some type of counseling to overcome the trust issues. Him doing the right thing by being faithful you would think is enough…it isn’t.
Card 5 – The Six of Wands – This is the right relationship for you and him even though it’s had some trying times. This card shows victory and triumph over all the obstacles to lead a very happy and productive life together.
Even though, you had some issues before going into this relationship or marriage they have been heighten to the nines with the cheating experience with your husband. This marriage can and will work, he’s learned lessons and is ready to be a good husband. Your suspicions go way too deep and are causing you too much anxiety and that is no way to live. Sessions with a counselor whether you realize it or not is in order for you.
I’m having some major mid-life crisis issues right now. My girlfriend left me for a guy who is 13 years younger than me. This hurts so deep and it’s beginning to make me question just what I have to offer anyone in terms of a relationship. I took care of her I never cheated on her, but I noticed she would no longer be affectionate or intimate with me. My question for you is I am scheduled to have some cosmetic surgeries next month because I feel like I need to improve myself in order to have her back in my life, do you see the surgery going well? What will the results be? DB 3/5/65
Hey D, This definitely is a difficult time in your life right now. I like what the cards have to say to you considering your very deep and emotional turmoil right now:
Card 1 – The Two of cups – when you guys met a match made in heaven
Card 2 – The Death Card – over the years things changed about both of you not just you.
Card 3 – The Ace of Swords – the actually surgeries itself…that’s a big scalpel, how many things are you having done??
Card 4 – King of Cups – you are going to love the way you look, so you get a great result actually.
Card 5 – The Eight of Cups – you are not going to want that relationship back at all. You completely abandon it for someone new.
You have to really understand what’s going on here D. There is going to be something fulfilling about how you end up looking physically. I have to advise you that you need to take a good long look at the person you are on the inside before going through all the surgery. It just so happens the person you are going to meet will be connected to your soul and spirit and not so much your exterior. The changes you make will be for your own peace, not for others. Good Luck!!
Who Shares Your Birthday This Week?
KEVIN EUBANKS – November 15, 1957
LISA BONET – November 16, 1967
DWIGHT GOODEN – November 16, 1964
DAISY FUENTES – November 17, 1966
RU PAUL – November 17, 1960
MARTIN SCORSESE – November 17, 1942
SINBAD – November 18, 1956
CALVIN KLEIN – November 19, 1942
JOE BIDEN – November 20, 1942
KEN GRIFFEY JR – November 21, 1969