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According to new author Holly Hill cheating is the solution to Divorce and a lasting marriage.

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Holly Hill is suggesting the best way to make a marriage last ain’t love, good sex, or finances. It’s sex with everyone. She says to wives, let your husbands cheat if you want the marriage to last.

For many women, Holly Hill might be the last woman on Earth they would take relationship advice from.The beautiful 40-something Australian with a psychology degree spent a full year of her life as a well paid  mistress, seeking out married men eager for sex and romance they weren’t getting at home.

Now she has penned a book, “Sugarbabe” to offer insights she learned.

And the biggest one might shock: let your partner cheat, she says, as long as you negotiate the rules.

“One of the main things that I have learned is that a woman that negotiates infidelity with her partner is far more powerful than a woman who is sitting home wondering why he’s late from the office Christmas party,” she recently told CNN.

Hill believes that men – and some women – are designed to cheat.

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Lets keep it real!

“How much more of this ‘Wanna keep your man? Let him stray’ tripe are we supposed to swallow?” The part that rankles the most is that Hill considers monogamous men to be heroes. “There you have it: A man and a woman can take the same vow, but the guy who keeps it is a hero.” Even worse, Hill thinks women should cheat, too…but just to make their husbands jealous. “That’s right; bonking some other dude isn’t about getting your own ya-yas out, it’s just about making yourself more desirable to your main man. ”

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I know this is the mentality the ladies on Basketball Wives have. What do you think?

That’s evident and perhaps in their lives it works. But for the average Tyrone and Tesha, that’s not going to work because Tyrone and Tesha ain’t got that big house to maker her feel like its worth it, the nanny to take the kids away for a great escape, or a fat diamond ring to stare at. Not to say these material things keep a woman happy, but somewhere along the way, those basketball wives figure that they’ll deal with infidelity only if they get what they want.

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I know some crazy jealous women, and men out there who’d kill if they found out their spouse was cheating. I wouldn’t follow this woman’s advice
1. Because someone is going to get hurt, physically
2. This redefinition of marriage in America is stripping the true value of love and union
3. Can you image what this will do to the kids!

When did marriage become such a superficial arrangement? Make a marriage last by praying together, working together, loving one another, and growing together. What happened to the old school kind of love?

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